Name Tag

3 NAMES THAT YOUR FRIENDS CALL YOU :

1) Tung Hing
2) Choya
3) Sook Lui (No doubt about that.. Hahaha!)

3 THINGS YOU HAVE DONE IN THE LAST 33 MINUTES :

1) Took a supper bath [One of my ultimate favourite :)]
2) Bought new furnitures for My MiniHome
3) Checked out 4D results for mum online and realised 7622 STRIKES!!! Nolaaa.. I din buy.. :D

3 WAYS TO BE HAPPY :
1) Spending time with family [inclusive of Mikey :)]
2) Hanging out with the coolest buddies ever (you guys know who you are ;D)
3) Simplest things in life will induce happiness in me

3 OF YOUR FAVOURITE FOOD :
1) Anything that mum cooks
2) Thai Food
3) Japanese Food

3 PEOPLE YOU MISS THE MOST :
1) My Siblings (always working out station)
2) Sir [don't think nonsense, it's part of the memorable times in BOL :)]
3) Lara (my little angelic cousin in Singapore)

3 GIFTS YOU WOULD LIKE TO RECEIVE :
1) Titus watch
2) A personal laptop
3) A platinum necklace

3 OF YOUR FAVOURITE HOBBIES :
1) Bathing at late night
2) Blogging at late night
3) Eating at late night

3 PLACES YOU WANT TO GO FOR HOLIDAYS :
1) Europe All-Tour
2) Japan
3) Taiwan

3 MALLS YOU USUALLY GO TO :
1) Gurney Plaza
2) Queensbay Mall
3) Tesco (not quite a mall actually, more like a gigantic kedai runcit :P)

3 OF YOUR FAVOURITE FAST FOOD :
1) Instant Noodles
2) Fillet-O-Fish McD (just had for dinner)
3) Fresh Milk and Tiger biscuits

3 FAVOURITE SPORTS :
1) Ping Pong
2) Swimming
3) Badminton

3 FAVOURITE DRINKS :
1) Diamond water
2) Ribena
3) Soya bean milk

3 PERFUMES / COLOGNES :
1) Eternity by CK
2) Diamond by Face Shop
3) Pure Seduction by Victoria Secret

3 FAVOURITE COLOURS :
1) Lilac
2) Baby blue
3) Baby pink

3 EVENTS YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO :
1) Saturday night fever
2) The day I finish university
3) The day I meet Takuya Kimura or Jay Chou :P

LAST 3 PEOPLE IN YOUR INBOX :
1) Shu Uemura Parkson (Sure my sis's idea :S)
2) Kah Whai (ANTM reminder-thanks :D but I missed it, both your sms and the show.. Haha!)
3) Zhi Xiang (Siew Lay no need to compensate RM9530)

3 THINGS YOU'LL BE DOING AFTER THIS SURVEY :
1) Replay Would You Be There
2) Listen to Would You Be There in Ipod
3) Dream....

Life In Venus

"Men are from Mars, Women from Venus"

I'm sure most of you must have heard about this but what exactly define the differences in these 2 different species?

To us girls, there's just one ultimate answer for guys, male ego knows no bound :)

To the guys, girls' fluctuating emotions are always scary :S

Though both Men and Women differ from one another physically as well as emotionally, it's very creative of God to create such a concept of opposite attraction. To bring 2 people with totally different personalities and perception in life together as 1. No matter what, in the end of the day we still find that we actually need one another to move on in this life regardless of how much ego that knows no bound or how scary are the fluctuating emotions can be :P

I'm not a guy so it's impossible for me to know how exactly it feels living in Mars but standing in the position of a 101% straight girl, I can tell you exactly how it feels living in Venus - bittersweet :) For you intruders (Marsian) who are somewhat curious about us, you are most welcome in this particular blogpost tonight :) Free tickets to Venus are hard to get so treasure this special moment :P Bon Voyage~

"Only Men can give what a Woman wants and needs but only Women understand what a Woman wants and needs"

I agree that it has never been easy for a guy to understand what a girl wants especially emotionally. No matter how macho and egoistic guys can portrait themselves but they will always find themselves lost in the mystic world of Venus, almost everytime ;D So it's useless for you guys to question one another about the doubts you have about your girl cuz it usually doesn't help much but to ask the opinion of a female third party will always help :) Hee...

Girls are naturally sensitive creatures, one of our ultimate weakness but also our most deadly lethal weapon (women's instinct are proven to be accurate 9.9 out of 10 times) The choice is either for us to confront the truth that might leave us devastated OR we prefer to pretend like we had not known bout anything so as to shield us from being hurt and dwell in despair. Women can be stupid at times, I have to admit, especially when it comes to Love. Strictly at all age :D

Even though our hearts are fragile, it's never easy to kill a girl's love and affection for you as our love has no boundaries. No matter how much pain a relationship brings, so long as her feelings is still there then forgiveness is almost guaranteed everytime. But once her feelings faded, it's really the end of the story. Girls can really be heartless creatures at times :S That's why it's risky for you to test your girlfriend's tolerance, you wouldn't want that day to come, worst with no signs nor alarms :( Women forgive but not forget.

To us, there is nothing more important in a relationship than mutual trust. Stability is the key to fulfilling a woman's needs. A woman needs to know that you will always be the one there whenever she needs someone. Trust speaks to her most fundamental feelings about security in a relationship. Knowing that you're faithful to her, physically and emotionally, is the most important element you can provide in the relationship.

I.Love.You doesn't come easy from our mouth. It just comes naturally when the right time comes around and you'll be surprised why out of a sudden ;D


On the flip side, a girl needs to know and feel that you trust her as well. Constantly nagging her about where she has been, who she has been out with and how she dresses will only act to cause a deep rift between you and her. However, no matter how "irritating" we might feel but there's always a tingling sensation deep in our hearts that says "He cares..." (Seasoned with a little bit of jealousy) :P Well, a little bit of jealousy is good for the soul. Hee!!! In a nutshell, believe in yourself, your girl, and your relationship will speak on its own. Confidence is a major aspect a girl is looking for in a guy :)

It's no doubt that as the time around the month comes, we tend to get really moody :S To you guys, bleeding is just a natural occurance and you guys have no idea why girls have to make a huge fuss out of a few teaspoon of blood. True. We don't know why we have to either but we just feel like it :) For fun maybe :D Well, the truth is usually in times like this we sought for nothing else but just a companion that is considerate, thoughtful, and kind. All we need is just someone who'll listen to our complaints (no matter how uncomfortable it is), someone who'll bring us Motrin when MS-ing and someone to bring our pets out for a walk in the cold morning. Many couples think that sharing about menstrual topic is such a nonsense but not realising it's just one of the cleanest and purest intimation :) Should be glad that she trusts in you ;) Women spend a lot of time nurturing you, so its only fair that you return their favour once in a while.

bloody hell

"Women need a partner who is like their best friend; someone who celebrates their successes and commiserates with their failures."

Women are always talking about wanting respect from the opposite sex, but unless you're a woman you can never really understand what this truly means. A little bit of fighting-for-your-rights attitude might let them accuse you of being insensible and not showing enough respect. Too much giving in attitude will just train them to disrespect you. How much to give in and how much to give out?? It's quite s subjective issue actually. Girls naturally like to be persuaded because we just like the extra attention given to us which most of the time it makes us feel as though we have the power to influence :P After all, women are more emotional than men and sometimes we just need a little reassurance that we're respected for all the things that we've done and sacrificed.

Women always feel that if the man they're with is the right man and if he really loves her, he'll instinctively know what to do to please her without having to ask. There's nothing special anymore right if we were have to constantly ask for something that favours us and not something comes out naturally from the right person. This is usually a very sad phenomena to us :( Sincerity?? What is that we wonder... White lies perhaps~

You can be fully puzzled why one small little verbal mistake you commit can change a girl's mood in a split second. But sometimes, it's also some kinda small small things that will make our day. In many cases if you offer to do something your girl will tell you not to worry about it anyway, but you have no idea how happy she would feel that at least you offered. It's all those little things that really pay off after all :) Kebahagiaan wanita adalah bagi seketika.

Sense of security in a guy?? It's something that cannot be seen nor touched, almost unreachable but we can somehow sense it whenever he's around, in whatever he does and almost everything makes us feel, safe. Not to worry if you do not hold black belt in Karate or Taekwando because being fit physically is not the major concern but it's just the feelings that is beyond description :) It can be as simple as being someone who is completely independent and initiative. It's a good feeling to us girls whenever we enter the car, we don't have to worry about the issue where to go as everything is well planned and all we have to do is just to sit back, relax and enjoy the journey. Great sense of humour and direction cannot be missed too :P
Anyways, when is the last time you remember that when you are walking by the roadside of a busy street, you take the initiative to offer the girl to walk in the inner lane?? It's either you have done it or never :P


I guess that's pretty much all about us Girls/Women/Ladies/Females that I have covered this time around :P I bet there are plenty that I'd eventually left out too but at least it's better than nothing :D Initially, I had planned to publish this post during Valentine's Day but somehow, I had no mood and I dragged it on until today. Earlier, I thought of dropping this idea too as it's not relevent anymore publishing it now but somehow I need something like this to blend in with my current blogsong. It's nice, isn't it?? Would You Be There by Redwan Ali.

My message to all you guys is that, life in Venus is not a bed roses yet it's not a nightmare either. As I said, Bittersweet experience :) Anyways, I hope that this blogpost of mine does help in making you guys realise and treasure that special someone that might drives you nuts at times but also the person who brings joy and shares the most memorable times in life with you. Girls are nothing but just girls as they are :)

F.I.N.A.L.L.Y

Kung Fu Dunk

Hahaha!!! Lame but at the same time damn FunNy! :D Though I must say that Shaolin Soccer rocks way more than Kung Fu Dunk but I just don't think Stephen Chow can give that innocent and noob look as Jay Chou can give. Hahahahaha!

Oh my God~ Never had I thought that I'd ever have a chance to see such a noob angle of Jay Chou~

what a good hair day for him.... LOL!!

Somehow when I was watching this movie, old memories of those days when I was so crazy for Jay Chou suddenly struck my mind and I can't help but to feel ticklish...:P Hehehe... Well, regardless of what others think of him, I still think he's amazing..(su-geh~) LOL!!

Overall, my rating for this movie would be B- as it's not bad in the sense that good looking casts are used in this filming though the storyline is pretty irrelevant but the slam dunk moves are AWESOME coupled with the tofu song. Hahaha!!! Well, anyone look close to Takuya Kimura should not be that bad to me.. LOL!! It was like at first, I thought that the Captain (I forgotten his name) looks a bit like Takuya Kimura but manatau later came another player whose name is Xiao Lan that looks 60% closer to him and my eyes were like... WHOAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome to the CaNdYsHoP~

However, I still think that Takuya is incomparable :) Well, take a look at the followings:-

I guess you don't really need a magnifying lense to tell the difference. LOL!! It was actually stated in the movie reviews of Kung Fu Dunk that this young star, Baron Chen looks like the Japanese Idol, Takuya Kimura. It tempted me to take a look again but neh~ not really. Maybe it was more in the movie cuz of the make-up and such perhaps? But the hair does look like some kinda replica.. LOL!!! But not in any of the pictures of Takuya I posted tonight. More like in the Gatsby Hair Bleach CM.. HAha!

No matter how cool a person is... there's always a noob side of them...Hahaha!!! Consider this:-

What's with his noobshit-looking facial expression? Haha!

Whatever it is, this old maid still pains my eyes....

sok tou kom du yao keh~ *pukes*

If Only

"If only I..."

Don't you guys agree with me that we often find ourselves having this thought, "If only..." readily in our mind, especially the times when guiltiness and regretness strike our conscience? I'm sure each and everyone of us must have our very own darkest secret that we might wanna try our very best to hide it forever, maybe?
Perhaps it's easy to lie to others but it will never be easy to lie to ourselves.

And sometimes, it's easy to ask for forgiveness from others over our mistakes but has it ever been easy for us to forgive ourselves? I'd rather say sorry to other people than to feel sorry for myself at times. Emo-ness strikes again? Yea...

It has been several nights where in the midst of darkness, there I lie down on the bed with a pillow of ancient thoughts. Recalling the gray areas I once leaped into can sometimes make my mind go hysterical, burning eyes can sometimes roll a stream of tears. And then I can't stop but to feel sorry for myself over the silly and naive mistakes I once made. "If only.. " I had the chance to turn back time, I'd appreciate a tight slap on my face to wake me up from the fantasy world and the miseries today will just be unnecessary. I'd probably forgotten how much it once hurts or how much pain it brings as all I can remember now is purely regretness above anything else and a slight guiltiness :S Heck... not a pleasant feeling.

Well, no doubt people say that with age comes our wisdom. Somehow, when I was living in those were the days, I wouldn't think that there was any problem with my wants and needs, doing and daring but at this very point of my life when I think back of those were the days when I was a noobshit teenager, I start to realise that this Chinese proverb speaks as it says, "Gina lang, cho min kia boh keng koi tua nao"

Aihz~ perhaps it's too late for me to say anything now. A million words and a trillion times of regretness can never help to salvage the precious moments I lost. But I believe that time can make a diffference although it may not entirely heal. Well, sometimes I do think that humans grow with their mistakes, so as to mould them into a more sensible person though it's an awful feeling having to carry such heavy burden with us for the rest of our lives-ReGrEtNeSsssSssSs~ :S

I'm Home

Well.... after a month of struggle in the cruel world of working out there, I'm glad I finally have the chance to drain all my emo-ness out from my liveless soul in a place where it makes me feel so secured and its warmness still touches my heart deeply, the feeling of like ~ I'm Home.... Yess, I went back to school a few days ago...!! :)

Well, my purpose to go back to school wasn't for the sake of roaming at the corridors from one classroom to another but actually went back to collect my university slip. Trust me, no matter how tough and hectic the lessons were or maybe how unreasonable the teachers once were, it doesn't really matter after all as school is always a place where corrections can be made and not in the real world out there. The very first step I made into the hallway, it gives me a very strong sense of belonging. The teachers that still remember you and on top of everything, they are kind enough to greet the students before the students even saw them and that's the typical bubbly Pn. Shirley! She was still dressing up like the days before and asked me why did I hang around here and what am I doing, bla bla bla.. where am I working then she rushed off to her lessons and ended the short talk with "alright, see you!" Well, you'll never experience this in CPT as the teachers see the ex-students as if they are rotten brats and never to expect them to make your day-really.. Well, maybe there's special treatment to PIBG's daugthers and some top scorers :) The reachable ones are mostly Pn. Faridah, Pn. Jessie, Ms. Yeoh and Pn. Ooi Chun Yoke and thats all to me but then no special effect too-normal hi-bye :)

Then I was looking for Ms. Pillay but then she was no where to be seen then I saw an orange shirt guy hastily walking pass me and it's none other than the insipid, Mr. Ian Howell. I was like,

Choya: "Mr. Ian, do you know where's Ms. Pillay??"
Mr. Ian: "Err, you don't talk to me now because I am very very very busy" (you should have seen his gesture-typical Ian syndrome) :P "Why not you ask Mr. James, he's sitting down there."
Choya: Oh okay, go go go..(as I'm going to ask Mr. James, I suddenly realise Mr. Ian was behind me and interrupted Mr. James conversation with somebody)
Mr. Ian: Hey James, did you see Ms. Pillay, any idea where she is? A student is looking for her.

Well, you get what I mean? Despite he was so busy he actually helped out the students first and on top of everything, just an ordinary ex-student. Before I had the chance to thank him, he was no where to be seen already. Aih~ And then I was rushing to work so I made up my mind to come back another day. I miss school~

Then the next day, after going to the KWSP office where the noobshit typed my email address wrongly, tungshing_88@yahoo.com, HAHHAH!!!! Then I was so lazy to go back there so I created one email add as that address. Hahaha! Sorry Ah Kam :) I dropped by in school again and I was never as happy in my life-to get to see Ms. Pillay! Hahahaha!!!! Time is actually running out short and my university slip is still lying down waiting for me. As I waited for her to finish her counselling session with some boys, I took that chance to recall back those times I had in school and the memories were playing clearer, clearer and clearer in my mind as if I was living in those times again.

I started to recall back the very first few weeks after I started F6, Yuyu, Jay Lin and I would frequent the Ladies Garden and gossip there. Soon after that, we proceeded to the canteen and then workroom :) Then came the memories of Inauguration Night, we practiced real hard, skipping all lessons and spent endless hours in the very last classroom nearest to the Basketball Court learning fan dance. Fell sick when the night arrived but still do it with no sweat :) Came the times in OSLT where distributing sweets are like smuggling drugs. One of the ultimate times was actually speeding all the way to school just to arrive at the school gate one second before the wardens locked the gate and then vroom in with bare feet-I wear shoes after I arrive. Hahaha!
Workroom is like a psychopatic ward where you'd see various librarians doing various noobshitz inside there such as: screaming, shouting, singing, sleeping, eating, chit-chatting, swearing, gossipping and hell lots more :)

After I got the slip and a short chat with Ms. Pillay, I eventually excused myself as I had to rush for work. After 20 steps, I realised I left my visitor pass inside her room so I went back in and collected it. Then I thought to myself, should I go and find Sir? But it was getting late, so it's ok.. maybe next time around. Just when I thought about that, Sir suddenly appeared before me-he was looking down at the floor (thinking ways to chin with librarians) Hahahaha! Then I called him up and talking to him makes me feel like... I'm really missing the days when I was a librarian, and every mistakes that we made, Sir will always patiently guide us through the way but not really the case now in work. Everything is on your own.

Well, what should I say furthermore? I bet all of you must have missed school too. Then there was a song that some time ago, I dreaded to sing but now it's playing in my mind like it's ever so soothing and reassuring...... Well, I don't want to sing out the whole stanza but the last verse is already an impact....

God bless St. Xaviers, my homme........swweeeet........ hommeeeee.........