Life In Venus

"Men are from Mars, Women from Venus"

I'm sure most of you must have heard about this but what exactly define the differences in these 2 different species?

To us girls, there's just one ultimate answer for guys, male ego knows no bound :)

To the guys, girls' fluctuating emotions are always scary :S

Though both Men and Women differ from one another physically as well as emotionally, it's very creative of God to create such a concept of opposite attraction. To bring 2 people with totally different personalities and perception in life together as 1. No matter what, in the end of the day we still find that we actually need one another to move on in this life regardless of how much ego that knows no bound or how scary are the fluctuating emotions can be :P

I'm not a guy so it's impossible for me to know how exactly it feels living in Mars but standing in the position of a 101% straight girl, I can tell you exactly how it feels living in Venus - bittersweet :) For you intruders (Marsian) who are somewhat curious about us, you are most welcome in this particular blogpost tonight :) Free tickets to Venus are hard to get so treasure this special moment :P Bon Voyage~

"Only Men can give what a Woman wants and needs but only Women understand what a Woman wants and needs"

I agree that it has never been easy for a guy to understand what a girl wants especially emotionally. No matter how macho and egoistic guys can portrait themselves but they will always find themselves lost in the mystic world of Venus, almost everytime ;D So it's useless for you guys to question one another about the doubts you have about your girl cuz it usually doesn't help much but to ask the opinion of a female third party will always help :) Hee...

Girls are naturally sensitive creatures, one of our ultimate weakness but also our most deadly lethal weapon (women's instinct are proven to be accurate 9.9 out of 10 times) The choice is either for us to confront the truth that might leave us devastated OR we prefer to pretend like we had not known bout anything so as to shield us from being hurt and dwell in despair. Women can be stupid at times, I have to admit, especially when it comes to Love. Strictly at all age :D

Even though our hearts are fragile, it's never easy to kill a girl's love and affection for you as our love has no boundaries. No matter how much pain a relationship brings, so long as her feelings is still there then forgiveness is almost guaranteed everytime. But once her feelings faded, it's really the end of the story. Girls can really be heartless creatures at times :S That's why it's risky for you to test your girlfriend's tolerance, you wouldn't want that day to come, worst with no signs nor alarms :( Women forgive but not forget.

To us, there is nothing more important in a relationship than mutual trust. Stability is the key to fulfilling a woman's needs. A woman needs to know that you will always be the one there whenever she needs someone. Trust speaks to her most fundamental feelings about security in a relationship. Knowing that you're faithful to her, physically and emotionally, is the most important element you can provide in the relationship.

I.Love.You doesn't come easy from our mouth. It just comes naturally when the right time comes around and you'll be surprised why out of a sudden ;D


On the flip side, a girl needs to know and feel that you trust her as well. Constantly nagging her about where she has been, who she has been out with and how she dresses will only act to cause a deep rift between you and her. However, no matter how "irritating" we might feel but there's always a tingling sensation deep in our hearts that says "He cares..." (Seasoned with a little bit of jealousy) :P Well, a little bit of jealousy is good for the soul. Hee!!! In a nutshell, believe in yourself, your girl, and your relationship will speak on its own. Confidence is a major aspect a girl is looking for in a guy :)

It's no doubt that as the time around the month comes, we tend to get really moody :S To you guys, bleeding is just a natural occurance and you guys have no idea why girls have to make a huge fuss out of a few teaspoon of blood. True. We don't know why we have to either but we just feel like it :) For fun maybe :D Well, the truth is usually in times like this we sought for nothing else but just a companion that is considerate, thoughtful, and kind. All we need is just someone who'll listen to our complaints (no matter how uncomfortable it is), someone who'll bring us Motrin when MS-ing and someone to bring our pets out for a walk in the cold morning. Many couples think that sharing about menstrual topic is such a nonsense but not realising it's just one of the cleanest and purest intimation :) Should be glad that she trusts in you ;) Women spend a lot of time nurturing you, so its only fair that you return their favour once in a while.

bloody hell

"Women need a partner who is like their best friend; someone who celebrates their successes and commiserates with their failures."

Women are always talking about wanting respect from the opposite sex, but unless you're a woman you can never really understand what this truly means. A little bit of fighting-for-your-rights attitude might let them accuse you of being insensible and not showing enough respect. Too much giving in attitude will just train them to disrespect you. How much to give in and how much to give out?? It's quite s subjective issue actually. Girls naturally like to be persuaded because we just like the extra attention given to us which most of the time it makes us feel as though we have the power to influence :P After all, women are more emotional than men and sometimes we just need a little reassurance that we're respected for all the things that we've done and sacrificed.

Women always feel that if the man they're with is the right man and if he really loves her, he'll instinctively know what to do to please her without having to ask. There's nothing special anymore right if we were have to constantly ask for something that favours us and not something comes out naturally from the right person. This is usually a very sad phenomena to us :( Sincerity?? What is that we wonder... White lies perhaps~

You can be fully puzzled why one small little verbal mistake you commit can change a girl's mood in a split second. But sometimes, it's also some kinda small small things that will make our day. In many cases if you offer to do something your girl will tell you not to worry about it anyway, but you have no idea how happy she would feel that at least you offered. It's all those little things that really pay off after all :) Kebahagiaan wanita adalah bagi seketika.

Sense of security in a guy?? It's something that cannot be seen nor touched, almost unreachable but we can somehow sense it whenever he's around, in whatever he does and almost everything makes us feel, safe. Not to worry if you do not hold black belt in Karate or Taekwando because being fit physically is not the major concern but it's just the feelings that is beyond description :) It can be as simple as being someone who is completely independent and initiative. It's a good feeling to us girls whenever we enter the car, we don't have to worry about the issue where to go as everything is well planned and all we have to do is just to sit back, relax and enjoy the journey. Great sense of humour and direction cannot be missed too :P
Anyways, when is the last time you remember that when you are walking by the roadside of a busy street, you take the initiative to offer the girl to walk in the inner lane?? It's either you have done it or never :P


I guess that's pretty much all about us Girls/Women/Ladies/Females that I have covered this time around :P I bet there are plenty that I'd eventually left out too but at least it's better than nothing :D Initially, I had planned to publish this post during Valentine's Day but somehow, I had no mood and I dragged it on until today. Earlier, I thought of dropping this idea too as it's not relevent anymore publishing it now but somehow I need something like this to blend in with my current blogsong. It's nice, isn't it?? Would You Be There by Redwan Ali.

My message to all you guys is that, life in Venus is not a bed roses yet it's not a nightmare either. As I said, Bittersweet experience :) Anyways, I hope that this blogpost of mine does help in making you guys realise and treasure that special someone that might drives you nuts at times but also the person who brings joy and shares the most memorable times in life with you. Girls are nothing but just girls as they are :)

F.I.N.A.L.L.Y