Queer Eye For The Straight Guys

I'm about to write up on one of the most controversial issues of all time...

People talk about them,

People make fun of them,

People avoid them,

Of people and them...

People choose not to understand them, for

They are not one of them :)

Who are they?

Oh yes, the Gays ;) I miss this show :P

It may not be necessary for us to give serious thoughts about the gays, so we thought.

But, have you guys (and girls too) ever give a thought to how would you guys respond to a confession of a friend, that he is a gay?

Is it,

Ohh okay, I see. (Backing off)

Really? Good for you! (Stay as friends) or

Don't be silly... (GASP*!!!!)

After much survey, I strongly conclude that, guys and girls think very differently of a

gay bestfriend :) Be it a manly gay or a girly-man. Man man man man man girly man man!! :P

Girls often find their gay bestfriends very interesting and intriguing, that we merely notice the "invisible" competition, you know... we like boys, and they want boys too :P Instead, we commiserate with the idea of WHAT A WASTE!!! :P

Haha! It's true... Our reflex action response very quickly "HAR SI MEH? PAK SENG NIA..." :P Cuz 9 out of 10 times, manly gays are.... irresistably attractive :P

Another point is that, girls have been struggling for millenia to try to make their boys understand them better. But often, it's a shrug-off matter for them. Girls & their PMS. For this, it's an amazing feeling that we finally have a "boy" that shares an equal or at least almost at the same wavelengths as us :P
And as for the straight guys, I'd come across comments like..."Actually, it's not that they are bad, but I just think it's gili." Well, it's only gili when you try to imagine their sexual preferences. But then it's just love & affection after all. Who has anything to say, right? Maybe your preferences for the girls creep them out too :P

And I had also come across guys that said, "I totally despise gays... as they are a big joke & a shame to our community." Urmm... for those of you that think this way, kindly define the phrase "a big joke & a shame". As I really don't get it, what is so funny and shameful for them to live lives the way they want and should? :O

I'll prepare some joke-o-meter or shame-0-meter to measure the level of fun then, if only there's any :)

Some extremists go to the lengths that promise, a hell at the end of a gay's life. Quote, "Because anyone willfully living that kind of lifestyle without ending it and putting it behind them is purposely sinning in God's eyes and undeserving of any kind of reward of eternal life."

Is this the word of the extremists? Or the word of God??? As far as I'm concerned or rather, brought up to believe that God created us, each so special that none the same. Then why do we end up here speculating His creation is a sin? Not like being born gay is a crime, it's nature.

But of course, each person has the right to cast their own thoughts and opinions about something. There's no right or wrong to that. After all, we are born different.

In a nutshell, most girls love their gay bestfriends :) If you guys think making fun of their gay bestfriends will make you look cooler, then you're wrong. You will just end up looking like a pathetic sang pepatung :P (random)

So if you guys happen to date a girl who has gay bestfriends, errr.. try not to insult them and instead, you should consider bringing them a fruit basket :D HAHA!

And maybe, you should stop feeling afraid that they'll hit on you because hitting on a straight guy to them is like climbing a fruitless tree :P End!